She met her friends in a public café, then she went out with makeup, a face she covered in colors that attracted the blind eye, and she wore perfume that would make anyone with a cold smell their scent. Because the café is in her neighborhood; She walked to him alone through the semi-dark streets, as she saw that her confident walk was enough to ward off any harassment or harm… She arrived and met her friends, and each one said to the other: I am more beautiful than you and have a better appearance. Then they talked and laughed, as if they were alone.
She met her friends in a public café, then she went out with makeup, a face she covered in colors that attracted the blind eye, and she wore perfume that would make anyone with a cold smell their scent. Because the café is in her neighborhood; She walked to him alone through the semi-dark streets, as she saw that her confident walk was enough to ward off any harassment or harm… She arrived and met her friends, and each one said to the other: I am more beautiful than you and have a better appearance. Then they talked and laughed, as if they were alone.
Some men in the café left watching a football match and started a match of eyes and smiles with them. But the language of girls says to every young man who is weak and does not lower his gaze: We will show our beauty, and you have no right to look at us, and if you look, you have no right to talk to us, and if you talk to us, you have no right to misbehave with us.
These girls put young men – and men in general – in very difficult situations, in which one faces the provisions of his religion, the control and fear of his master, and struggles with his chivalry and chastity.
These girls forget that they are women, and that God created men to love women, be attracted to them, and become attached to them, so that they may seek to connect with them through marriage, so that their souls may be at peace, and the earth may be populated by their offspring. God Almighty said:Adorned for people is the love of the lusts of women.﴾.
These girls do not know that the most severe temptation that men experience is the temptation of women, and that it is greater than the temptation of money and prestige. In the hadith: (I have not left behind me any temptation that would harm men from Women) agreed.
O girl! Don’t you see that it is to protect people? It is written on the fuel trucks: (Danger. Highly flammable. Leave a distance)? In order to protect men and protect your religion. Leave your modesty and you will leave a distance between you and the men, for a fire that is poured with fuel cannot fade away.
Remember that your adornment, your clothing, and your wordsIt is not just a passing behavior and a beautiful appearance with which you meet your friends, but rather it is traps and nets that you cast on men.
Wait…and see what you do to those around youImagine the harmful effect you have on men. If you see money falling from someone; You will not take it no matter how much it is; Because you are reluctant to steal and fear its punishment, but for many men – who disobeyed their Lord in the face of your adornment – you may steal what is much more important and much more expensive than money. You may steal – with your adornment and charm – their fear of their Lord, and their contentment, and you may steal their happiness with their wives and families, and their happiness with themselves.
Hey girl! Do not ignore your femininity, and do not turn a blind eye to the fact that, with your clothes, adornment, and sexy appearance, you are attractive to men, corrupting the religion and morals of many of them. God’s nature remains, and neglect will not change it, nor will arrogance cancel it. A man had a bag of sugar, and he was afraid of ants, so he wrote on it: (Salt). Do you expect that the ants will not come to him?
This conversation is with you if you are unaware of what your adornment is causing, and you are not deliberately trying to seduce men. But if you mean their temptation, excitement, and (senility) as they say; What a heinous thing you are doing, and what a worse thing you are doing! By doing so, you are committing the sin of displaying yourself, and the sin of intending to mislead and tempt men, even though this does not exempt them from the obligation to lower their gazes. How will you meet your Lord and Master on the Day of Resurrection, if you come with the sins of your adornment, and the sins of the one whom you corrupted by your adornment? God Almighty said:That they may bear their burdens in full on the Day of Resurrection and some of the burdens of those who mislead them without knowledge.﴾. And if God Almighty has warned those who love (only) that immorality will become widespread among those who believe; So what about His threat and torment for those who do more than love Him? {“Indeed, those who love for indecency to be spread among those who believe will have a painful punishment in this world and the hereafter.”} .
May God grant you repentance that forgives you for all that has passed, and fill your heart with love and obedience to Him, Glory be to Him, and grant you the heights of Paradise where there is no death, sickness, or sadness.
Written by: Mansour bin Muhammad Al-Muqrin
